The Magic Vagina

I have so many female clients tell of of their first date.
They have sex and feel as though it is a shortcut to a having a great relationship.
As though the physical intimacy can somehow make up for the lack of emotional intimacy.
Emotional intimacy takes time.

The women who take the shortcuts......well I get calls because after a few weeks or months, the man is not calling or showing any signs of life.
I often hear how they know he will be back around because he has never had such amazing sex.

Ok ladies, we all have a vagina. It is not magic. The only magic that happens is when two people fall in love and commit to each other. Love should happen first. Sex is just simply not enough.

What is his favorite color? Favorite memory? Did he have a great childhood? A sad one?
So many women could draw his penis and yet not be able to describe how he behaves when in a temper, or hungry, or sad or happy. They have never met his family, or best friends.

Let's face it, sex is easy. Go into any bar and you will see quickly.

While great sex is great, even greater is knowing you are with the man who cares for you.
That he loves you with everything within him.

You are selling yourself short without that. You are devaluing yourself by giving away the most intimate part of yourself to a stranger.

HE is not going to 'come back' because the sex was amazing. Not unless it's just going to be for sex alone, do you want to be his quickie?

If what you are seeking is a relationship, there are no easy shortcuts to take.

If you are just seeking some attention and sex, keep right on, thats exactly what you will get.

You cannot tell the universe you want a relationship, with all the frills and intimacy of being with your best friend and the jump in bed with just any guy. Huh? The universe will listen to what you SAY you want, but will give you what you SHOW you want. Decide, it is your choice.